One of the great disappointments in life is that we can’t be good at everything. Then again, how boring would that be? It is in our quirks and oddities that our uniqueness shines.
It does, however, take a while to learn to love those quirks. I learned this hard lesson very early after realizing my coloring skills couldn’t hold a candle to my desk mate’s. For better or worse, I spent the next decade taking stock of my weaknesses, writing them down in a journal, vowing to abolish said flaws by sheer willpower. I’m sure you could guess how that worked out. (Hello, therapy!)
Since then, I’ve learned to let go of some of these “weaknesses” and accept my flaws, with one glaring exception: I’m incredibly disorganized. I embody disorganized chaos in every sense of the word; from my physical space and objects to my work and social schedule. I say yes to things without referencing prior obligations, and I’ve (more often than I care to admit) gasped when realizing I have a meeting in 5 minutes and have to get across town. I am constantly battling the clutter in my room and, for whatever reason, have a total aversion to putting clothes away after I try them on. I would feel less shame about this if it didn’t affect almost everyone I encounter. The late emails, the lost keys in a Target parking lot, missing paperwork, or luggage left at security. I apologize to strangers, friends, family, and sink into my own steamy soup of shame.
I’m working on getting over it. But it’s taking time.
What I’ve come to accept is sometimes the most basic life skills are the most difficult, especially for adults living with ADHD. It’s a constant struggle to keep information, passwords, keys, cell phones, sunglasses, and wallets within your grasp. We learn to thrive in the chaos. It also makes us dynamic and fun and exciting to be around. This chaos has it’s challenges, but it also brings forth gifts like creativity and imagination. As I’ve gotten older I’ve let the chaos in my brain lead me to exciting jobs in the creative field and hobbies that involve making things. While I’m getting better at recognizing the upside of my scattered brain, that doesn’t change the fact that the world we live in, especially when you run a business and have children, requires some sense of organization.
Technology has been one of the best things to happen to scatterbrained people, if they can harness it’s power appropriately. For example, with every opportunity to fall down the Instagram rabbit hole, there are 2 apps that assist a busy brain. I’ve learned to live by my calendar, take advantage of online banking and bill pay, enlist the help of Amazon’s Alexa so I don’t over cook the chicken or forget to buy batteries, and freed myself from the clutches of my phone with a smartwatch.
As 2016 came to an end, our friends at MyDomaine and Fossil asked us to participate in a 31 Day Challenge that was about embracing technology and the improvements it can make in your life. Given how much of my life these devices have given back to me, I said YES! We gave the Fossil Q Smartwatch a test drive when I got back in the office vowing to get organized and reinspired for 2017. We were challenged to think about the role of Organization and Creativity play in my daily life, and it was fun to step back and think about skills that so often contradict one another. “Organization” is about systems and logic and process while “Creativity” is about play, experimentation, and wonder. What we’ve found was that an organized life allows for creativity to blossom, and creativity needs organization to continue to evolve.
A clean desk brings a clear mind, but sometimes a little clutter can work in your favor. Here are some ways we tamed a studio full of stuff to look put together and work for a variety of functions.
1. Use home decor odds and ends to organize desk clutter. When we set up our desks, I decided to shop our prop closet to find cute vessels for my keys, business cards, lipstick… basically anything I would throw on my desk on a daily basis. It’s a quick way to take your desk from blah to pretty without much work.
2. Color Code Your Clutter. We have A LOT of props in our studio, which can look cluttered and disorganized at times. We decided it was best to arrange each shelf by color, giving it an eclectic but unified look. It has also helped speed up the pulling processes when getting ready for a shoot!
3. Put Some Wheels On It. One of the benefits of this space is its flexibility. We embraced the idea of having storage on wheels, so we could use them for wheeling props, supplies, etc. to different parts of the studio. Sometimes we’ll use this an Ikea bookshelf for organizing props for a shot list, or for organizing product samples for a presentation. The flexibility has made it super easy to do a lot of different things in the space.
4. Activate Calendar Notifications on your Fossil Q Smartwatch. The best part about using a smartwatch is that I don’t have to constantly be looking at my phone. It’s easy to lose track of time when you’re busy shooting or in a meeting, so the discrete notifications on the Fossil Q Smartwatch make it easy to stay on top of my schedule, especially when I am 100% reliant on my Google calendar.
5. Think outside the box (or kitchenette). Our office kitchenette needed to work double time for us. The island doubles as a work table, and we used an empty corner to place small appliances that otherwise cluttered our countertop. Now, the microwave and N’espresso machine are out of the way and easy to reach.
Whether you’re taking up a new hobby or trying to improve your craft, creativity is a fickle thing. We can’t always turn it on when we want to, and if we don’t make time for it, these hobbies quickly give way to more practical tasks. Here’s how I’m trying to make more room for play in 2017 with three of my favorite creative hobbies: floral arranging, writing, and interior design.
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BY Kate Arends - January 12, 2017
Thank you for being here. For being open to enjoying life’s simple pleasures and looking inward to understand yourself, your neighbors, and your fellow humans! I’m looking forward to chatting with you.