The Parts of Quarantine I Want to Keep

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When quarantine first began, I started tallying the days on my bedroom wall. Work was closed, events were canceled, and, to be fair, I wasn’t about to go out into the world anyway. I stayed at home, I went on walks, I watched the movies I’d always wanted to watch and learned to make whatever the TikTok meal du jour was.

As I settled into my new life, I realized I kind of liked it. Okay…I really liked it. The family time. The empty schedule. The absolute lack of FOMO. The forced shutdown was, in some ways, a little present from the universe, offering me the time I needed to reset and recharge, figure out what I wanted in life, and just breathe for a bit.

There is privilege that comes with a positive quarantine experience. Though I had many moments of stress regarding money and health, things were okay in my life for the most part. I was young and healthy, my job would return eventually, my parents were kind enough to let me return to my childhood bedroom, my sister and boyfriend were around for companionship, and my household was on the same page when it came to staying in and staying safe.

We need to acknowledge this privilege. At the same time, we can acknowledge that the positive lessons we learned and sweet moments we had were important in their own way.

When I encounter a particularly positive experience, I try to make note of the things that impacted the situation so I can keep doing them. While the plan to integrate my wellness retreat routine seamlessly into my everyday life has failed time and time again, there are parts that have stuck.

When I encounter a particularly positive experience, I try to make note of the things that impacted the situation so I can keep doing them. While the plan to integrate my wellness retreat routine seamlessly into my everyday life has failed time and time again, there are parts that have stuck. I’m better off for them.

Without further ado, these are the parts of quarantine I’d like to (if at all possible) try to keep as we reintegrate back into something that…maybe resembles life as we knew it. Thank you, science. Thank you, everyone who has worked to keep us safe. And thank you, introspection.

The walks

The best walk of my life took place the day Taylor Swift’s Folklore album came out. My sister and I shared a pair of headphones and listened to the record on loop as we strolled—a quite apropos way to enjoy the content, honestly. When there wasn’t anything to do during quarantine, there were walks. Sunset walks. Early morning walks. Lunch break walks. Solo walks. Family walks. Walks in the rain. Snowy walks. Walks-to-the-mailbox-and-back-and-that’s-good-enough walks.

Walking gets us outside, gets our bodies moving, and gives us a change of scenery. We should not give up the walks.

The small comforts

When you’re planning your pick-up grocery order days in advance, adding a tiny treat can do wonders for morale. Small indulgences should continue. If the fancy cheese will add something special to your evening, enjoy it.

The fashion

Sweatsuits as normal day wear!!!!!!!!! Always and forever.

The focus on personal space

Keep tending your garden and making your home a place you want to be.

The community

While anyone can bother you when you’re in each other’s company too long, in many cases those who were lucky enough to quarantine with loved ones were lucky indeed. May quality time remain.

The light schedules (for some of us)

With events canceled and work from home eliminating the need for a commute for some, an excess of time became the norm. Oh, the only thing you have planned this weekend is a FaceTime with your best friend? Enjoy the rest of your time doing…whatever you want to do!

The cooking

Restaurants are amazing! But a home-cooked meal can be so, so special. Quarantine forced many people to get creative in the kitchen—a truly splendid skill.

The smell

After I thought I made a point by noting that quarantine had a certain smell to it, my mom informed me that I was just thinking of the smell of spring. Even so, I believe our lives should smell like spring all the time. Does anyone have a candle recommendation?

The mindfulness

When there are fewer external things to focus on, you are often able to finally focus on yourself. Let’s keep listening to what we need, shall we?

The creativity

There’s something to be said for the geniuses who invented at-home writing clubs, entertaining social media content, fanciful meal kits, and streaming platform watch party features. Keep the good ideas coming.

The lack of pressure

Though there are in person (!) activities (!) on the horizon (!), we can’t let FOMO get the best of us. If you want to stay home, stay home.

The appreciation

For the seemingly mundane moments and the things we didn’t realize we’d miss so very much.

BY Sophie Vilensky - April 19, 2021

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Mika
April 20, 2021 3:25 pm

I love this post, I have feen reflecting about the same things. It’s like we were handed this once in a century chance to really evaluate what is important. I find myself wishing I could turn back time and truly truly grasp what was happening and to truly cherish the last year, but hindsight is 20/20.

April 21, 2021 3:15 am

“For the seemingly mundane moments and the things we didn’t realize we’d miss so very much.” this hits hard on me. Been missing the small moments I spent with my family at home during the lockdown.

May 17, 2021 6:02 pm

Love this post and could not agree more. Aside from entertaining more at home and occasional outdoor dining, I am keeping everything else the same. We have thrived and now embraced the slower pace. Time to think is a beautiful thing.

May 17, 2021 6:03 pm
Reply to  Deanna

Oops. Can you please delete my last name? Auto fill!

May 21, 2021 3:53 pm
Reply to  Deanna

Updated. Thanks for taking the time to comment!

Diana Fitzgibbon
May 19, 2021 6:27 pm

Walks were everything to me during the complete lockdown. I still walk fairly regularly, but there is nothing like a good old quarantine walk.

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