4 Favorite Intimacy Products, Whether You’re Solo or With a Partner


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Whenever we cover topics related to sex and intimacy on Wit & Delight (exhibit A and exhibit B, to highlight a few), our audience responds with clear interest. It’s a topic that’s often brushed under the rug, but given the curiosity in it from readers, it’s something we want to talk about more.

In that spirit, today I’m sharing four of my favorite intimacy products. These ideas can work for you and also for your partner. If partnered, consider using the new product as a way of opening up a conversation about what you want in the bedroom; sharing exactly what you like when it comes to foreplay and sex is another step toward building greater intimacy in a partnership.

It’s also worth noting that lifestyle factors like being well-rested, working out, or taking a hot bath are so impactful for sensuality too. When your body feels taken care of and soothed, you can more readily get the most out of your sex life, whether solo or partnered.

Let’s get to the recs! These are some of my favorite intimacy products out there.


Dame Eva Vibrator

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This vibrator continues to be one of the top-selling products we’ve ever shared on Wit & Delight (and it’s popular for good reason!). It can be used solo or with your partner. It can take some getting used to, so don’t be discouraged if it takes a couple of tries to figure out the best way to use it.


Kate McLeod Sex Stone

Intimacy Products to Use Solo or With a Partner | Wit & Delight

I love all of the Kate McLeod products I’ve tried. Given the unique nature of how you apply her moisturizing products, it’s no surprise that this sensual moisturizing bar would be a great addition to giving and receiving massages!


Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace

Intimacy Products to Use Solo or With a Partner | Wit & Delight

I purchased this vibrator necklace several years ago on a research trip with a local agency. (Oh how times have changed!) It’s small and comes with a chain, which makes it perfect for travel or for those who might want to conceal their personal devices (wink!).


Equilibria CBD Balm

This CBD Balm is another great product for finding intimacy through touch. The product turns to oil with heat (aka the touch of your hands) so it’s perfect for a gentle massage. Massages are the way to my heart (and they always mend fences) and the added benefit of CBD brings an extra calming effect.

Use code witanddelight to receive 15% off your first order at Equilibria!

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BY Kate Arends - February 10, 2022


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