A Simple, Practical Guide to Buying Bed Sheets Based on How You Sleep

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Pictured here is the Linen Core Sheet Set in Charcoal Chambray and White Stripe, and the Linen Duvet Cover in White.

Finding the right sheets can be a daunting task. With so many options available, it can be difficult to know how to select the best bed sheets based on how you sleep. Yet investing in quality bedding is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your sleep.

Joe and I have different preferences when it comes to sleep; his jersey sheets are not my favorite sheets and my cotton ones are not his first choice. I think that’s why I like to keep a vast rotation of styles and textures in our linen cabinet. One thing we can agree on is how much we both look forward to the first time we pull out the flannel sheets in the winter and the linen sheets in the spring. 

One of my go-to brands for sheets is Brooklinen. In fact, we’ve been sleeping like babies on Brooklinen sheets for the past five years! Brooklinen offers a variety of styles, materials, and weaves to choose from, so you can always find the perfect fit! They are also the only brand that has over 100,000 5-star reviews, so you know they know sheets. I already own their Luxe Sheets and they get softer with each wash.

Read on for all the details on how to select the best bed sheets based on how you sleep.

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What is the Best Thread Count for Sheets?

Choosing the best thread count for your bed sheets can feel like navigating a maze. With numbers ranging from 200 to 1000 and beyond, it’s easy to get lost in the thread count labyrinth. Let’s demystify this for you.

Understanding Thread Count

Thread count refers to the number of horizontal and vertical threads per square inch of fabric. While it’s a significant factor, it’s not the only one to consider. A higher thread count doesn’t always equate to better quality. In fact, the quality of the fibers and the weave type play crucial roles too.

The Sweet Spot for Comfort and Durability

For a balance of comfort, durability, and affordability, sheets with a thread count between 300 and 500 are generally ideal. At this range, you’re likely to find a set that feels luxurious without breaking the bank.

  • 200-400 Thread Count: Sheets within this range, especially if made from high-quality cotton like Egyptian or Pima, are breathable and soft. They’re perfect for those who prefer a lightweight feel.
  • 400-600 Thread Count: This range is where you’ll start to notice a denser, more substantial feel. Sheets in this category often have a satin-like finish and a smooth texture, which can be especially cozy during cooler months.
  • 600+ Thread Count: While a higher thread count can be very soft, they’re not always worth the extra cost. Some manufacturers achieve these counts by twisting fibers together, which can compromise breathability and longevity.

Materials Matter

No matter the thread count, the material of your sheets significantly affects their feel and performance. Cotton, particularly long-staple types like Egyptian cotton and Pima cotton, tends to be softer and more durable. Linen sheets, while typically lower in thread count, are beloved for their breathability and unique texture.

It’s All About Personal Preference

Ultimately, the best thread count for sheets depends on your personal preference and needs. If you’re looking for lightweight, breathable sheets, aim for the lower end of the spectrum. For a more luxurious, warmer feel, go for a higher count. Remember, always consider the quality of the fabric and the weave, not just the numbers.

The Best Sheets for You Based on How You Sleep

Are You a Hot Sleeper?


Classic Percale Sheets

These sheets are made with 100% long-staple cotton. They come in a crisp, cool weave that gives them an extra soft feel and allows for breathability throughout the night. If you tend to get hot while sleeping, this is the sheet set for you! Plus, they look great on any bed and will last through many washes.

I received the Classic Hardcore Sheet Bundle from Brooklinen. If you can bundle your sheets, I highly recommend doing so! You can mix and match 20+ colors and patterns to fit your style. This sheet bundle includes a Core Sheet Set (two pillowcases, a flat sheet, and a fitted sheet), two extra pillowcases, and a duvet cover—all for 25% off the price of purchasing each item individually. 

Seeking Soft Sheets?


Luxe Sateen Sheets

This luxury set is crafted with 100% long-staple cotton and features an extra-soft sateen weave that creates a subtle sheen on the surface of the fabric. They provide a lightweight feel while still being cozy enough to keep you warm on cold nights. If softness is your priority, then the Luxe Sateen Sheets are perfect for you!

Have Allergies?


Washed Linen Sheets

Linen is known for its ability to keep cool during warmer months and insulate during colder ones, making these sheets ideal all year round! The washed linen fabric lends a relaxed texture that gets softer with each wash. It also has natural antimicrobial properties that help guard against dust mites and other allergens, making it perfect for those who suffer from allergies or asthma.

Angled view of a bedroom with a patterned wallpaper, patterned quilt and chaise.

Looking for Luxury?


Heathered Cashmere Sheets

If you thought silk sheets were the height of sophistication and luxury, allow me to change your mind. If coziness is king when it comes to selecting your sheets, then these are just what you need! Handcrafted from 100% extra-long staple cotton yarns spun together with luxurious cashmere wool fibers, this sheet set provides an ultra-cozy experience while remaining breathable enough so as not to trap heat. It’s perfect if you love feeling pampered when sleeping!

Always Chilly?


Brushed Flannel Sheets

For those who prefer something heavier than percale but lighter than linen, Brushed Flannel Sheets are here to save the day! These sheets are made with 100% cotton flannel in a plush weave that keeps you warm without weighing down your bedding too much. Additionally, they’re wrinkle resistant so they look great even after multiple washes!

Tight view of a striped-patterned pillowcase, floral quilt and bird-patterned wallpaper.

How Many Sheets Are Needed to Use for a Bed?

Determining the right number of sheets for your bed involves a mix of practicality and personal preference. Here’s a simple guide to help you figure out how many sheets you need.

The Basics: Minimum Essentials

At the very least, you should have two sets of sheets for each bed in your home. This allows you to have one set on the bed while the other is in the wash. It’s a practical rotation that ensures your bed is always made with fresh sheets.

Considering Your Lifestyle

Your lifestyle and laundry habits can influence how many sheet sets you need. Here are a few scenarios:

  • Families with Young Children: If you have young children, you know how often accidents happen. In this case, having three to four sets per bed can be a lifesaver. You’ll always have a backup ready for those unexpected middle-of-the-night changes.
  • Guest Beds: For guest rooms, two sets are usually sufficient. Since guest beds aren’t used as frequently, you won’t need as many spares.
  • Busy Lifestyles: If you have a busy schedule and don’t do laundry often, consider having three sets of sheets. This ensures you have enough clean sheets even if you delay washing for a week or more.
View of a bedroom, with a chaise lounge at the front of the bed. A window is letting in sunshine.

Seasonal Changes

Many people like to change their bedding with the seasons. Lighter sheets, such as cotton or linen, are ideal for summer, while flannel or higher thread count cotton sheets are cozier in winter. If you prefer seasonal changes, having an extra set for each season is a good idea.

Special Considerations

  • Pets: If your pets sleep on the bed, you might want additional sets to manage fur and dander.
  • Allergies: Those with allergies might benefit from more frequent sheet changes, necessitating more sets on hand.

While the minimum is two sets per bed, the optimal number depends on your lifestyle, habits, and preferences. Whether you’re accommodating frequent wash cycles, preparing for seasonal changes, or just ensuring you always have a fresh set ready, having three to four sets can provide the flexibility and comfort you need.

No matter what kind of sleeper you are—hot or cold—there’s a perfect sheet set out there waiting for you! With so many different options available ranging from lightweight cotton percale to cozy cashmere, there’s sure to be something that fits your sleeping preferences perfectly. Investing in quality bedding should not be underestimated. It makes all the difference when trying to get a good night’s sleep.


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BY Kate Arends - April 25, 2023

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April 25, 2023 6:27 pm

There is nothing like a fresh set of bed sheets. I tried some linen ones and they were a little stiff and wrinkled. I like a softer set and once I find a set I like i just keep rebuying them. I will have to check out Brookline sheets. They look nice

April 29, 2023 6:11 am
Reply to  Kathy

same here

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