Do You Really Need a Flat Sheet? And Other Key Questions About Bedding

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Brought to you by Garnet Hill

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If you are going to spend one-third of your life in bed, you might as well be comfortable, right?

I’m working with Garnet Hill to share their bedding essentials, and introduce their Fall 2019 collection. For your reference, I’ve linked a few items from Garnet Hill’s essentials and 2019 collections below.

Product Information

From Garnet Hill:
Cottage Stripe Relaxed-Linen Bedding Duvet Cover in Charcoal
Dream Quilt Shams in Dawn Gray
Dream Quilt in Dawn Gray
Dream Quilt Lumbar Sham in White
Solid Relaxed-Linen Pillow Cases in Ochre
Isa Stonewashed Organic Cotton Blanket in White

Pictured top to bottom, all from Garnet Hill:
Mums Hemstitched Supima® Percale Bedding in Navy
Cottage Stripe Relaxed-Linen Bedding in Charcoal
Dream Quilt Collection in White
Wrinkle-Resistant Embroidered Sateen Bedding in White
Solid Relaxed-Linen Bedding in Ochre

What Should I Consider When Purchasing Bedding?

  • Thread Count – Thread count (the number of horizontal and vertical threads per square inch) is nice, but not the be-all and end-all. In theory, the higher the number, the softer the sheet. However, most fabrics become softer after a few wash cycles.
    • What I tend to look for over thread count is the weave: linen (a natural fiber, with a “lived-in” look), percale (a basic, gridlike weave) or sateen (a satin weave). One is not better than the other in terms of quality, but they do differ in touch.
  • Temperature and Location – Consider the temperature of your room and your geographic location when purchasing a comforter. Most of us sleep better when the room temperature is colder. I tend to buy “lighter filled comforters because you can always add more blankets.
  • Firmness – To further complicate everything, pillows come in a variety of softness. Depending on how you sleep (side, back, or stomach), you may want to consider different levels of firmness. 
    • Side sleepers may need a firmer pillow and a pillow on the thicker side. Look for one that is as thick as the distance between your ear and outside shoulder.
    • Stomach sleepers may need a soft pillow—or no pillow at all—underneath their head. A pillow under your stomach and pelvis may help prevent back pain.
    • Back sleepers may need a flatter pillow, to keep your head and neck in alignment.
  • Color –  I purchase my essential bedding (top sheet, flat sheet, pillowcases) in either a white or a neutral. I believe bedding is a necessary investment, and I want to ensure the basics are timeless.
    An easy way to make your bedroom feel brand new from season to season is to rotate blankets, duvets, and pillow shams.

How Do I Care for Bedding?

Cottage Stripe Relaxed-Linen Duvet Cover in Charcoal
Dream Quilt Shams and Lumbar Pillow in Dawn Gray
Solid Relaxed-Linen Pillow Cases in Ochre
Isa Stonewashed Organic Cotton Blanket in White

Always follow specific care instructions provided by the manufacturer, but here’s a basic overview:

  • Linens – Wash linens once a week (flat sheet, fitted sheet, duvet, pillowcases).
  • Comforter – Wash comforters 2-3 times a year. I do this seasonally, typically when I change out the duvet covers.
  • Pillows – The frequency with which you need to wash these will depend on the fill.
    • Synthetic fill, wash every six months.
    • Down or memory foam fill, wash roughly every three years.
  • Mattress – Vacuum, apply baking soda, let it sit, vacuum again, and then let the mattress air out.


I consider comfortable bedding basics to be essential, from the mattress to the pillow. If you purchase quality items and care for them, they can last for years. Once you have quality basics, then you get to experiment with color and design using blankets, duvets, and decorative pillows.

Last, but certainly not least: return policy! If you are going to invest in quality materials (which you should!), be mindful of what you can return and what you can’t. While there are guidelines on how to select the “right” pillow or mattress or comforter, it all boils down to how these products will work for you.

Decor Ideas

We have a TON of resources on how to personalize your room (too many to include here!):

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Decor Faux Pas We Can’t Help but Love

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How to Decorate for Small Spaces While Still Making Them Feel BIG

How a Hygge-Inspired Room Refresh Made a Huge Difference in My Happiness

7 Unconventional Nightstand Ideas That are Anything but a Snooze

8 Vintage Shopping Tips that Bring New Life to Old Pieces

Ed. note: This post was sponsored by Garnet Hill. The compensation received in exchange for placement on Wit & Delight is used to purchase props, hire a photographer, write/edit the blog post and support the larger team behind Wit & Delight.

While compensation was received in exchange for coverage, all thoughts and opinions are always my own. Sponsored posts like these allow for the development of additional dynamic content to be produced, unsponsored.

BY Kate Arends - September 11, 2019

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  2. Bestpick

    September 12th, 2019 at 3:19 am

    Awesome! Great information with great pictures.

  3. Kate Lately

    September 13th, 2019 at 7:20 am

    These are awesome tips! I used to use a flat sheet all the time, but my boyfriend hates it. . . so we’ve done away with it, too!

    K A T E L A T E L Y || fashion + lifestyle blog

  4. Interior Designer

    October 10th, 2019 at 1:08 am

    Love your bedroom interior..

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